Engagement Anxiety Dismantled – Do I Love My Fiance Enough?
[ad_1] They usually speak in low tones, as if they're violating some unwritten law of an engaged person. I can hear the fear, doubt, confusion, and anxiety wrapped in each word, as well as the relief that they've finally found a safe place where they can discuss their real feelings. The story and subsequent questions are some version of the following (written as a woman but could just as easily be spoken by a man about his wife-to-be):"My fiance is a great guy. He's honest, responsible, loyal, good-looking, funny. My parents and friends love him. I've never felt so safe with anyone. We have the same values about kids, family, money, religion. I know I love him and he's my best friend but... I'm not sure that I'm in love with...


