30 Jan Why a Steel Chastity Belt is Best For Male Chastity
A stainless steel chastity belt is probably the ultimate male chastity device you can get, and for several reasons.
Before I get into that though, I just want to say a few words about devices and belts in general because there seems to be some considerable confusion about them.
There’s a common misconception that the cheaper plastic tube-devices, typically held in place by a ring around the testicles, are inferior and suitable only for short-term wear or play.
And this is not necessarily true, because more than one person I know has found them secure and suitable for long term wear. This is perhaps unusual, but it’s not unheard of or unique, so even if long-term chastity is your aim, it’s probably worth giving these simpler devices a try. You might just get a nice surprise.
But for many couples, those seeking unarguable security plus a more subtle yet in some ways more powerful benefit of male chastity, a full stainless steel chastity belt is seen as the ultimate solution.
First, it’s worth understanding there is no such thing as a perfectly secure belt.
Anyone who tells you otherwise is either dreaming or deliberately trying to mislead you. Designs and materials vary to some extent but essentially all modern belts comprise a waist-band to which is attached an arrangement for preventing access to the man’s penis and testicles.
Clearly, any device of this type can be removed by simply cutting the waist-band. How easy this is depends on several factors, but there isn’t a steel chastity belt out there a man couldn’t remove in just a few minutes with even the most basic of tools found in almost any garage.
So the real aim of these belts is to be secure enough that you can’t withdraw your penis or get access to it without damaging the belt and so breaking the “rules” of the male chastity game you and your partner are playing.
Some women claim not to care (although I suspect they are just playing a fantasy role for men who are into the “femdom” thing), but for long term wear any device or belt has to be comfortable (if it’s not, he won’t wear it, which takes you right back to square one). And since a high quality steel chastity belt is bespoke and hand-made to fit every client’s individual measurements, they tend to be extremely comfortable – to the extent they can be worn 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year (it might be a game, bit no-one said male chastity wasn’t a serious and challenging game).
And here’s the more subtle but very powerful benefit I mentioned above.
See, some other metal devices, both stainless steel and titanium, are secure but still leave the penis and testicles mostly visible and to some extent accessible (especially the testicles). But a full belt is very different. The design always means the man’s penis and testicles are almost completely enclosed – he can’t see them and he can’t touch them.
His access to them is completely at your whim, and this is why a steel chastity belt makes male chastity far more profound and exquisite than simply the delicious torture of his orgasm denial.
I cannot stress how this takes things out of the physical realm and puts them firmly into the psychological realm. It’s a complete fiction and a fabrication to say your man must needs become “submissive” to you when this happens – most men and women don’t actually want this, either.
But what does tend to happen is he will feel his surrender to the delicious feelings coursing through his mind and body much more keenly; and as for you, you’re going to enjoy your feminine power to drive him wild with desire all the more potent and satisfying.
In my mind, there is no doubt: if you want to enjoy male chastity to the full, then locking your man in a steel chastity belt becomes almost inevitable.
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